June 17, 2016
On Father's Day, Talk With Your Dad About His Health
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During June, which is National Men's Health Month, millions of people will call or visit their dads for Father's Day. The College of American Pathologists (CAP) suggests this Father's Day would be the perfect time to have "the talk" with your dad.�Instead of the awkward pre-teen "talk" your dad might have had with you, this version of "the talk" with your dad can focus on his health and your family's health history.
"As we know, dads can be stubborn, and usually hate to go to the doctor, so they just avoid it," said CAP President Richard Friedberg, MD, FCAP.�"Father's Day is as good a time as any to ask your father about his health specifically or, even better, about family health history. Dad's health history could be linked to your own future health and that of your children, so having 'the talk' is not just a way to turn the tables on dad, but to learn significant information about your own risks that could guide your health care also."
Adrienne Lawton Hery, MD, FCAP, politely refers to her own stubborn father, Ray Lawton, as "stoic." When Adrienne attended medical school, she would call home a few times a week; her father accommodated her medical inquiries each time she called after learning of a new malady in class. Then she suggested the colonoscopy.
"Imagine talking to Dirty Harry about his colon," Dr. Lawton said. The colonoscopy was not a pleasant experience, including a large projection screen which allowed everyone in the room to view the procedure. Dr. Hery claims that her father refused to speak to his daughter for a week afterward. His results came back negative and at age 65, he regularly boxes and runs in 5K races.
"I'm glad I did it though and I've been back for another since then," Ray Lawton said, before disputing a piece of family lore.�"But it's not true that I didn't talk to my daughter.�It was just another hollow threat she saw straight through."
Dr. Lawton is one of several CAP members who urge everyone to ask about dad's health and the family health history -- and a Father's Day dinner or barbecue is as good a time as any. Others offered some advice on what to ask Dad during "the talk."
Their advice:
The doctors agree that if your family history contains certain cancers or diseases that you get tested earlier than generally recommended; for conditions like high blood pressure and elevated cholesterol, make sure you continually monitor those levels.
As the leading organization with more than 18,000 board-certified pathologists, the College of American Pathologists (CAP) serves patients, pathologists, and the public by fostering and advocating excellence in the practice of pathology and laboratory medicine worldwide. The CAP's Laboratory Improvement Programs, initiated 65 years ago, currently has customers in more than 100 countries, accrediting 7,600 laboratories and providing proficiency testing to 20,000 laboratories worldwide.