Top 7 Soft-Life Gay Influencers Living the Dream

Luxury in today’s financial climate is becoming extinct. You either have to work several jobs or move to a smaller house just afford a trip to Disneyland. But some have taken a less extreme approach to making their fortunes. They have climbed the ladder to success while keeping their mind, body and spirit intact. They are the epitome of the ”Relax and…” home decor paintings; reminders that not everything needs a deadline. Below are some influential people who have met success with a soft touch and kept their sanity intact, in the process helped others feel less overwhelmed and bothered. 

Bretman Rock

A self-made influencer, Bretman Rock seems to find solace in giving his fans a taste of his non-pressing routines. Photo shoots, cozy, at home videos and just an overall good attitude make him the prince of the soft life. 

Troye Sivan

Although being a pop music superstar must be a frenetic career, Troye Sivan makes it look so easy. From his soulful soundscapes that lull you into a dreamlike state, to an emotional vulnerability that has become his trademark, Troye is paying no mind to the drama and moving at his own pace. 

Wisdom Kaye

Putting on expensive clothes for a living and showing up to a photo studio for a session of blinding camera flashes and editorial instruction seems overwhelming, but Wisdom Kaye doesn’t seem bothered. His soft life fashion sense keeps him grounded, while still filling up his bank account. 

Nyle DiMarco

Nyle DiMarco might be hearing impaired but that’s not a crutch. In fact, as an advocate to others with the same condition, he’s making strides in the community.  With his fashion sense and relaxed demeanor Nyle seems understated in the public eye. It’s quality that puts his fans at ease every time they see him.

Mark Bryan

In a world where men dressing in traditionally female attire is under attack, Mark Bryan is not letting the haters get him down. Although he is a straight man he has a lot of influence on the gay community. Mostly because he happens to like wearing expensive heels and non-heteronormative clothing. It’s inspiring. It’s a bold move to make it so public, but as a seemingly relaxed rebel, Mark paves the way for others without focusing on  the political drama. 

Eugene Lee Yang

You probably remember Eugene Lee Yang from his time working for BuzzFeed, especially his exit from the hit internet series “The Try Guys.” Even amid the drama of that story, Eugene remained non-judgmental and silently removed himself from that group to focus on things that were more important. It’s that un-affected attitude that gives him a soft life spirit which holds true today.

Matt Bernstein

Do make up tutorials hath charms to soothe the savage beast? In Matt Bernstein world, yea they do. As an influencer with a great eye for pop culture and its influence on politics, Matt in his own soft-spoken way gets his point across without having to scream it from the mountain tops.