"I Wish You All The Best": Tommy Dorfman’s Directorial Debut Spotlights Hope, Identity, and LGBTQ+ Representation

"I Wish You All The Best," the much-anticipated directorial debut of transgender actress Tommy Dorfman, arrived in US theaters on November 7, 2025, bringing Mason Deaver’s acclaimed novel to cinematic life. The film centers on Ben, portrayed by Corey Fogelmanis, a non-binary teenager navigating self-discovery after being rejected by their parents and seeking refuge with an estranged sister, Hannah , and her husband, Thomas .

As Ben adjusts to a new school, they find support from Ms. Lyons, a quirky art teacher played by Lena Dunham, and form a meaningful friendship with Nathan, a compassionate fellow student . The story unfolds as Ben explores their gender identity and seeks acceptance, both from others and within themselves .

The film’s release comes at a time of heightened scrutiny and legislative challenges for transgender people in the United States, adding urgency to its themes. Corey Fogelmanis, who identifies as queer, candidly reflected on the film’s hopeful tone: “It’s scary to be a trans person in the US,” he shared, emphasizing that while the film offers a blueprint for queer joy, many in the community still face adversity and exclusion. Fogelmanis praised the movie’s depiction of a supportive environment, noting its importance for young audiences seeking affirmation .

Miles Gutierrez-Riley, who also identifies as queer, echoed this sentiment, drawing parallels to his own adolescence and the impact of seeing authentic LGBTQ+ stories on-screen. He likened the experience to watching formative films such as "The Perks of Being a Wallflower," underscoring the universal relevance of stories about self-discovery and resilience .

Tommy Dorfman’s approach to adapting the novel was grounded in authenticity and emotional specificity. She described the challenge of translating Ben’s internal journey to the screen, ultimately focusing on the “intimacy” of the character’s perspective. Dorfman’s directorial style fostered a collaborative, affirming environment on set, which the cast credited for their powerful performances. Gutierrez-Riley highlighted Dorfman’s ability to balance fun and precision, treating all participants as professionals and nurturing a space for genuine expression .

Fogelmanis spoke of the trust developed among the cast, particularly with Gutierrez-Riley, which translated into the heartfelt connection between Ben and Nathan on screen. Their shared experiences as queer actors added layers of authenticity and relatability to the film .

"I Wish You All The Best" stands out not only as a moving narrative about a non-binary teenager, but as an important addition to the growing canon of LGBTQ+ representation in mainstream media. Its nuanced portrayal of rejection, resilience, and chosen family offers a counterpoint to the prevailing climate of adversity faced by many transgender and queer youth. The film’s release, coupled with the cast and crew’s affirming perspectives, signals progress and underscores the ongoing need for inclusive storytelling .

As Dorfman’s directorial debut, "I Wish You All The Best" invites audiences to witness the beauty of queer joy and the necessity of support for LGBTQ+ people everywhere. Its message resonates deeply: hope may not be universal, but representation and empathy bring it closer within reach.